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Adults not helpingAfraid to ask for helpAfraid to go to schoolAfraid to helpBeing a bullyBeing smaller or weakerBeing the new kidBelieving the labelsBetrayalBody imageBullying among friendsBullying in sportsClass prejudiceCliquesCulture of bullyingCyberbullyingDepressionDisabilitiesFeeling differentFeeling excludedFeeling unpopularGanging up on one kidHomophobiaIgnoring the issueKeeping it to yourselfPeer pressurePhysical bullyingRacismRegretsReligious prejudiceRumors and gossipSelf-destructive behaviorSexual harassmentStudents not helpingSuicidal thoughtsThinking you can't helpVerbal bullying
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ApologizeApproach the person laterBlock or report cyberbullyingBreak the cycleBystandersChange the subjectDefine your own self-worthDon’t pass on rumorsEmbrace your differencesFind true friendsFocus on your futureGet informedHelp a target get awayHelp someone feel valuedImagine how others feelInclude someone newInterrupt bullyingLearn from your mistakesListenLook at your own behaviorOffer sympathyPeople being bulliedPeople bullyingPost support onlineProtect othersQuestion rumorsQuestion the behaviorRealize it’s not about youRemove yourselfSet a good exampleSit with someone newSmall acts of kindnessStand up for yourselfStep out of cliquesSupport differencesTalk to someoneTell an adultTry new activitiesUnite with othersUse humorUse your influenceWhat parents can doWhat teachers can do
Vanessa Marano | Bystander Friends
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Actress Vanessa Marano shares her own experience as a bystander in school. Find out what worked for her.
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